The words that fill our minds…
We all have words that we cycle on repeat in our minds—from worries about being late to songs we sing or words we repeat. Don’t be late, don’t be late, don’t be late, we repeat to ourselves as we rush from subway to office to meeting to appointment. Gotta finish, gotta finish, gotta finish—it builds across our mind like a chant, a pull to keep us focused long enough to finish the day or the project.
[tweetable hashtag=”@sarahkpeck”]”What we think, we become.” —Buddha[/tweetable]
What is a mantra?
A mantra is a basic sound used in meditation and chanting, and more simply, in our daily lives. At its root, a mantra means “mind tool.” The root man– means mind; tra- means protection or instrument. Anodea Judith, in The Wheels of Life, describes a mantra as “a tool for protecting our minds from the traps of nonproductive cycles of thought and action.” She writes:
[tweetable hashtag=”@sarahkpeck”]“Mantras serve as focusing devices for making the mind one-pointed and calm.”—Judith[/tweetable]
Have you ever heard a young kid gleefully say the same thing over and over again? “This is so COOL!” They exclaim, only to repeat the same thing again a few minutes later, and again a few minutes later. Our minds hold words and ideas captive, guiding our thoughts with simple patterns that we often repeat on cycle. Sometimes it’s negative:
Dumb, dumb, dumb. That was dumb. Why did you do that?
And sometimes it’s positive:
Awesome, awesome, awesome. Nailed that! Whooo! Yes. Awesome. Awesome, awesome.
And sometimes we get a peaceful song noted in our minds—a song that sticks, webbed words woven into our invisible frameworks.
Oh what a beautiful morning… Oh what a beautiful day…
Try it yourself:
A beautiful way to start your day is with a small mantra. Try a notecard taped to the side of your bed, a post-it on the inside of your wallet, or a scribbling on your daily diary. One of the reasons I write so many notes and doodle all over instagram is to remind myself and repeat words as I imprint them into my being.
What phrases would you love to embed in your mind? What new mind patterns and habits would be soothing or helpful? Perhaps during times of stress, “This too shall pass;” or “This is just but a moment.” These short phrases are powerful tools to build into your inner mind strength. Sometimes I like to hum to myself, “zoom in, zoom out,”—the vibration of the z buzzing against my lips, the mmmm a buzz deeper in my ribs and belly. (Try it: humming is delightful).
[tweetable hashtag=”@sarahkpeck”]”Zoom in, zoom out. It’s nothing in the macroscrope, it’s nothing in the microscope.”[/tweetable]
The vibrations of actual sound — joyful noises, as I like to call them — do more than just warm up our vocal chords. They are a means of expression, and they help to settle our mid-bodies.
How do you use language to protect your mind? Do you chant, sing, or hum each day? Do you have a phrase you love to hold on to?
Such a good idea with the post-its! I’ve been waking up saying over and over, “bite the bullet, bite the bullet,” to amp me up to cross of the top things I’ve been procrastinating on. Working so far, buddha knew what he was talking about ;)
Thank you for this. It is a lovely way to rethink the things I have been told “stop the negative self-talk”, but then when that became cemented in my brain, I kept feeling like I was just reminding myself over and over that I was negative. :) That may not make sense.
I do not have a phrase right now, sometimes maybe it is “Don’t f*ck with me, fellas”, but I should find something more positive. ;)
Dear Sarah,
Thank you for such a great post! Truly hits home for me. I began my daily morning meditation practice a few months ago and one of my favorite mantras is “For my peace, and the peace of the world, I choose love.”
I also put the mantra in my iphone and at 12noon I get a reminder with this little phrase. Some days I change it up or keep it simple “I choose love.” Helps me keep it fresh for the afternoon!
Wishing you peace of mind ~ Allison
I LOVE this. Mantras are so beautiful. “Choose love” and “Choose freedom” are two of my favorite mantras. The first reminds me to be kind; the second reminds me that maybe I don’t need to buy happiness, but instead, I choose freedom over materiality, resulting in greater health and love.